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Consider
what might happen if you do not talk
with your child.
If a child doesn't learn about sexual health from a parent, the child will learn
about it from friends, magazines, television and other sources. This information
can be incorrect, confusing and may not agree with the parent's beliefs. Research
shows that uninformed children are at greater risk for early sexual activity,
sexually transmitted infections (including HIV), pregnancy, sexual exploitation
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Plan how to respond to questions.
Parents
who are uncomfortable talking
about sexuality may find it helpful
to plan what they will say and
how they might answer their child's
questions. When your child asks
a question or does something
that triggers a teachable moment,
you may find this three-step
response format useful:
- Make sure you know what the child
is asking.
- (Ask your child, "Do you mean...?" or
"do you want to know about...?")
After
you've decided what to
say, keep it short, simple and age
appropriate.
Be sensitive to your expressions and
gestures.
The way you answer a question is sexual
education, too. Don't forget to smile,
and remember that a good sense of humor
can help communication.
If you have any concerns
about your child's development,
talk with your
healthcare provider, knowledgeable
family members, or other parents. Reach
out to others for information, understanding,
and ideas on how to maintain open communication
with your child. Support from others
can help you and your child learn to
talk about sexual health, a lifelong subject.
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